Getting back into dating after a long period of time can be difficult. The idea of joining an online dating site may seem scary and a bit intimidating but that doesn’t have to be the case.
There are a lot of online dating sites that are designed specifically for senior singles. This means you can join with the peace of mind that you won’t be bombarded with messages for 20-somethings. You’ll be in good company on sites such as Just Senior Singles. Here are some top tips if you’re thinking of getting back into dating.
Know What You Want
Where the younger generation is more likely to play games and mess each other around, once you reach a certain age you’ll realise that you want things to be a bit more straight forward. Make it clear in your profile what you are looking for. If you’re looking for romance, let people know that. If you want to start as friends and see how things go, make that clear on your profile.
As well as making sure other people know what you are looking for, don’t be afraid to tell someone that your intentions are different if that’s the case. It’s better to let someone know straight away if you don’t think you are compatible as this will save awkwardness and potential upset in the future. Know what you want and make that clear to everyone you talk to.
Take Your Time
There should be no rush to jump into a relationship. It’s far more important to get to know someone properly and see if you have a genuine connection. Know your worth and never settle for less than you think you deserve.
In the long-run, waiting for the right person is usually quicker than pursuing a relationship that will break down in a few months because you are desperate to rush into things.
Above All, Have Fun
Dating should be enjoyable. If it’s not, don’t feel bad about stepping away for a while. Sure, the end goal for most people is finding love and romance but the journey should be fun. The right person will make dating enjoyable. You’ll want to speak to them every day. It should never be a chore.
If you’re thinking about getting back into dating, try Just Senior Singles today. It’s free to join and search.
Are you wondering if dating sites work for seniors? Read our recent blog post here.
Until next time,
The Just Senior Singles Team
5 thoughts on “Tips For Getting Back Into Dating In Your Golden Years”
Hi I’m Janet, looking for a nice man as a friend for now and see where it goes. I’m attractive and single but would love to meet new people for short walks and have a laugh together some one who is also attractive would be nice. I’m 72 years young and I like drawing and painting, not very good but I try. I can’t have animals as I’m allergic to fur so no pets please
What is this let me see some men
I Agree Janet I love a a Good sincere old fashion views kind of Man and a real Mans Man and very spontaneous get up and go and great fun to be with. But where are they! Respectively I think the good Men have GONE but hay maybe one day WE shall find our Prince Charming lets live in hope I am please god again perhaps next will do some travelling Good Luck Janet I think